Positively new thread - how do you deal with this?

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It was nice that everyone privately at one time or another come to me to talk about H and how he is doing, admitting their feelings of loss for him too. This helped me tremendously, to know that they miss him also and do not expect me to just forget about him and spend the day ignoring his absence, and knowing that they are grieving also and missing him helped me the most today.

I bet that was really comforting. So much better than when people say what a jerk someone is and how they knew it all along.

Your 4th of July sounds like it was really nice and you sound like you are doing really well.

Were you able to go see your Aunt?