I know you can look upon the passing of your auntie with a smile, all things considered, and that is a blessing, but I still want to give you a virtual hug cuz you deserve it. I wish your H was there for you, but since he can't, or won't be, then we will be. I can't be there in person, but I am in spirit and I'll be thinking of you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
