Positively new thread - how do you deal with this?

[PositivelyListening]

Hi Always, I do not know how you can say so much of value in such a short post. You are a gift to me.

Just knowing (and being reminded again and again when I forget) that H might not be ready now, but could be ready at some other point in the future, helps me. I remember what my H was like when I met him and married him. That is not who is currently here. I get afraid that the H that I knew is gone forever. He's been missing so long and it frightens me. But knowing there is the possibility that I will see him again, the man I married? That is worth waiting for. I waited so many years to find him. What's a few more, if I can find him again? Patience, and courage, must be the most important lessons of my life.