Kent, thanks so much for the summary of the seminar. Don't know if you remember but you were one of the people who helped me most through my roughest time (Nov-Jan.) I have carefully read about where you and wife are. By the way, my H used to be like your wife, except that he can talk a blue streak about very superficial things. He has changed and the only person happier about this than I, is he. I've come to believe that people who don't open up are almost always, underneath how ever they present their silence, very affraid. The very good news is that we all cherish being understood and accepted.
Have ya'll read Jamie's post started on 2/15? (If time is short try my "thanks jamie" post for what I thought were the highlights.) There is a lot about patience in there!
Love, ALTL
[This message has been edited by alottolearn (edited 02-22-2001).]