I too, am sorry that I was not available during your time of "crisis", although in hindsight I would say that you handled things extremely well. As usual, the wise GH has given you great counsel..."believe in yourself." Such a small phrase, but something that I think all of us LBS' lose sight of in the process. I myself have been guilty of this countless times and I am truly on that journey of believing in myself rather than trying to manipulate a situation over which I have no control.
PL, you definitely can do this. You have such a great positive mental attitude and truly, you have so many great qualities. I am truly sorry that your H cannot look through the fog of his issues to see this, but I think in time he really will. In the meantime, let that wonderful person inside of you come and enjoy the walks on the beach, the quiet moments of solitude.
Again, be as you are, believe in yourself. No one can ever fault you for that. I hope today brings a brighter day for you.
All the best,
Rob
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
