Positively new thread - how do you deal with this?

[RBinBR]

PL, I could also tell you what a jerk your H is, but you already know that. What's really important to realize right now is that your frustration mainly stems from your own expectations.

Of course, anyone would be upset to prepare a fine dinner for nothing, but the main reason you are upset is that you thought H was warming up to you, and H mentioned seeing the movie ... and you built tonight up in your head into something that it wasn't. Your H's rollercoaster behavior is normal for a WAS, and you know this. You need to calm down and realize that you let your detachment slip and you'll have to build it up again.