Hi GH and all,

Thanks so much for your reminders about snooping. I am good about reminding others not to do it, but the weak human obsessive part of me sometimes lurks around doing unhelpful things... Of this great dialogue (thanks pmd, RB and GH) this really sums up where I want to stand:
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I just think that snooping is paying ultimate respect to the affair and the idea that the more we know about it, the better off we'll be is totally natural and in my opinion, totally false

I am leaving for a two day D's house move-out and hotel staying event with my H. It has all the earmarks of great family bonding and quality alone time with H. I want to make the most of it! It is the last scheduled activity we have planned. So I appreciate you guys jumping in here to remind me that it is MY time and who I am being and MY R with H that matters. I think I will go plan my wardrobe Thanks for hanging in with me.

PositivelyListening
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