If you work on being the best person you possibly can be for yourself, I am sure things will happen just as they are meant to.
The secret is are you currently the sort of person you would marry? What things would you like to change about yourself? Work strictly on yourself. Would you like to study? What goals do you have? Do you treat yourself well physically? Do you take time to look at the beauty of nature? Learn to enjoy your life and to bring into it all the good things you can enjoy?
So if you want a better social life how are you going to get one?
If you want treating with respect, are you willing to make sure you get it, how? Are you going to tell your partner what you will accept and not accept and stick to your guns?
We create the lives we want!!
So take care and know you can do it if you try, you can do anything that you think you can do!!