WOW...this is some great advice. Yes, you are right about my body telling me NO>>>don't sell the house. I think he does love me but the MONEY thing in the house is all he has left to spend. I know he has sold everything else in the past for him and his fling to use. I KNOW I won't sell...I think what I'm going to do is just sit back and help him see the big picture...in time maybe he will. He has said now that he will try another 6 mts..you never know what love bug may hit him. Of course during this time he said the house should sell by then. Well, I'm going to try to steer him away from that and try to use our land for a money making venture. We have 4 ac. that use to have cows and I'm going to plant gourds (I'm a gourd artist) and use them to sell. They should produce ALOT. Then our land is a form of income not just to sell. I am trying during this time to show him how important family is. He has been making comments well..when we get a divorce I guess you are going to do things for your husband like you do me. Well of course!! He thought I wouldn't find anyone else...Ha ha! I told him up front that No one should be alone all their life and I'm sure someone will come along and treat me the way I should be treated and we will share a life...memories together. I think that is eating at him slowly. I did wait while he had his fling and I guess he thinks I always will. I told him that he will NEVER hurt me again like that....divorce is divorce and it will be over. He told me that it doesn't have to be that way. Oh yeah!! I can't sit back and watch him with other women and just be FRIENDS. Dream on.
Thank you all for your advice. You really help me remember to listen to my mind, heart. We will see what happens...Hopefully something good. Thanks again...Rowena
