Hello,,,I don't know if there are any members still on this list who remembers me. Just a brief rundown. Husband left for a year...lived with a young stripper. Well, all along he talked about a divorce but nothing. Then anytime he had a vacation or I did or even weekends we all spent it together. She thought he was just spending it with our son. He always told me to hang in there and please don't give up on him. Well one weekend we all went camping and she called my work and they told her I was on vacation and she put it all together and when he got back she was GONE. He then wanted to come home and work things out with us. This has been 7 mts ago. The problem I have is that he still says he wants a divorce and we can still live together. This is weird to me. He now wants us to sell our home and build me another one and pay off bills. I'm very leary of doing this as I don't want him to pull a runaway again. He says our neighbor got a divorce and he is back at home now and why can't we do that. I think its stupid. We have been married 11 years. He said he still wants all his stuff at home and we will always do things together etc. He still loves me but he doesn't like the marriage stuff. This to me is so stupid. I'm not spending money for a divorce. I think he justs wants money from our house and he will be on his way. He says NO. We will always be together. Does anyone have any imput on this? I'm really scared to sell my home and I will never have another one like it. He makes comments that....WE ARE SELLING IT AND I HAVE NO CHOICE. To me if he loves me this shouldn't matter. We ARE strapped for money but I really don't want him doing this and going up to where she is or her coming down here. He says he hasn't talked to her in months and all this wasn't about HER but about him being on his own...well he wasn't on his own he was with HER and me also. ANY INPUT WOULD BE HELPFUL...I CAN'T MAKE OUT WHAT HE IS UP TO. Thanks again,,,Rowena
