Thank you for your post. I am healing myself little by little. It is hard. I started a new job in the same field I was in prior to having my son. I am accomplishing jobs that needed to done to my house. I am trying to take things day by day but it is hard when I hear from people that they have seen my H and the OW out when my H has our son and her child. They are going on like one big happy family. I don't like the fact that my H brings our son around them even though he probably doesn't know what is going on because he is only 2. Then a friend of mine talked to my H and apparently my H told him to tell me to move on with my life. It crushes my heart knowing that. How do I show him that things would be different if he reconsidered our marriage without sounding desperate?