************************************** Your h may not be quite at the point yet where he is able to fully give to you. **************************************** Right on!
Me2, What makes you think that he is not scared, tired, confused. Then again, maybe he just ain't ready yet.
You say that nothing seems to work yet you are here rather than in one of the other forums. This tells me that you think something is working.
I see Winney the Pooh sitting on a log in the hundred acre woods, poking himself in the head, Think! Think! Think!.
Maybe you should go back to list making. Write down what has worked in the past, what definitely does not work and what seems to not work. Then you can get creative and come up with something new.