H and I have been back together for 7 months now. He does not EVER want to discuss his affair or his MLC behaviour. He has told me that it really, really hurts him when I bring it up.
For now I am ok with moving forward with the marriage, because I can't see how knowing all the details would benefit me. All I need to know is that he loves me. He has changed, probably because I have, and he is much more loving and caring towards me.