ALTL- Thank you for the encouragment. We were able to get back on track faster than previously. It helps that H is so motivated. We went to the 1st followup which was fine..just far away and on Saturday night- which H hates. He's willing to make the effort tho. Overall things are pretty good. I still have thoughts about ow -that I shove aside. I still have days I think H is going to change his mind and leave. R'vaille helped me to be able to voice those fears to H. H in turn asked me what I would do if we did run into ow again. So he felt safe voicing his fears,too.( I assured him-No Jerry Springer Show.) Our 14th anniversary is Wednesday. Looking forward to celebrating...

Me2-How are you? How are things going?

Working on my marriage gives me less time on this board. I check in about once a week but I think of you all often and keep you in my prayers. J