Jilly-
Very interested to see how Retrouvaille goes for you. It was the setting where I dedicated myself to understand even if I wasn't understood and that has made a big difference. (Guess I've said that a time or two and few different ways around here ). The toughest time for me was at around 18 months. We had worked so hard and both were struggling so. I'd hoped to have it all wrapped up by that time. So glad we got through that tough period.