Sammy Well, I probably shouldn't be posting to you in my mood but I just have to say your situation reminded me a lot of H and I when we were your age. But role reversal. I'm HD, he's LD. I remember going on vacations, staying in hotels..No sex. Seems so bizarre now, especially since we have kids and all today. Back then, we were young, in love, and no kids to worry about. Heaven right? But no, all of that was not enough to make the SL work. Now, add into the mix stress of family life, careers, kids, etc, and worst of all, the growing resentment through the years, and the SL is one big thorn in the side. I totally understand that you love each other but love is not going to ever get you a fulfilling SL, not with someone with No Libido. I just want passion and reciprocity, playfull and satisfying sex with some one who is turned on. I know.
