You mention some great points. It seems I have tried everything in terms of making her feel special and treating her right etc.. but this gets me the gift sex or routine sex.
"How is this going? Has she given you more specific things or do you understand the vaugeness of her request? Do you understand what she means by making her feel special? Why would she say you are treating her badly?" Its going pretty good. I bought her flowers a few times, and have spent alot more time being loving and caring. I have created a lot more 'our' time so that we can see each other more and overall we are closer then ever as friends. Just as I mentioned ealier our actuall frequency of sex as increased along with this, but her actall physical desire hasn't.
Another thing to remember is that this isn't 'tit for tat'. Don't give to her expecting that she's going to give back to you. It seems like there is an emotional disconnect from her end too. She seems to recognize this and acknowledge that she needs something from you. I think thats a good thing.
I think that is a great point.
You have to understand that this girl loves me and will spend hours giving me a back rubs, scratching my hair, cuddling etc...and the EC is actually pretty high between us, she just has no libido for what ever reason.
