After reading the success story thread and reading posts by some one named..I think MRSNOP....it seems that the best case scenerio is that she will use her desire to please me to act in the way I want...but even MRSNOP who seems to be one of the rare succes stories concedes her desire never increased.
If best case scenerio is passionless appeasment sex I am not sure I can keep going. Especially with how hard the little bit of improvement we have made so far has been.
Isn't there ways to increase Libido? I mean this book and forum look at so many ways to fix the situation but non of them appear to directly address Low libido. It so hard for me as the HD person to wrap my mind around the fact that she doesn't get horny ever...I have reaccuring nightmeres that she is cheating on me and when I confront her about it she tells me her other lover is just better, or bigger, or better looking etc...I always feel that it is my defincy in bed or in how I look ect.. that causes this problem.
