People who file for divorce don't always go through with it. Get Michelle's books & read them quickly. You can pick one up today at a large book store.

Keep things amicable. Go to mediation if the other choice is her going to get an attorney (don't let attorneys get involved if possible...it always get ugly then). Admit your problems and what you know have contributed to marriage problems without pointing out her faults.

Stay strong. Needy is not attractive.

Pray every day for God's grace and for happiness and for your child's well-being.

Hang in there..