Sorry we have been married almost two years september will be our anniversary our daughter will be three also in september. my wife will be 23 in august and i am 26. we have been living with my father which i think is a big factor in causing the riff i was tryingto save up for a house but we could never come together on the money issues. i see now that i should have just got an apartment but i thought i was making the right desicion for my family.