My wife left me on may 4th at denny's she wrote a note because she could not say it. we have had some problems this last year but i kept trying to tell her that they were normal problems and I tried to go to therapy and she would not. we had a little blow out one day and she said that when her mother got her new place she was going to go stay over there for a while. I tried everything i said lets go out tonight and talk and lets try therapy because i think that all of our issues are communication. she said that she did not think that therapy would help and to much damage had been done. but i talked her into it and then she cancelled a few days later. I made a lot of changes on things that she had brought up as issues. but then her mother got her place and i realize now that she never stopped her plans. She just let me think that we were going to go to counselling soon and that everything would be ok ( boy do i feel like a idiot ). so she left and then i tried to send her flowers and everything and she said that i was not respecting her space. but i just did not want to give up i want her to know that this is not the answer to her problems and that i still love her. i tried to just engage her in friendly converstations trying not to bring up the issues to see if that would help but she said that i was being to nice and that she appreciated it but it was odd. I dont think this space that she has asked for is that at all she went online to her blog on myspace and changed her status to single she has been changing all of the bills and she even gave me back all of the pictures of me. but then i get confused because one night i get a call ( it had to be her no one else would have been able to get my cell phone number ) from a supposed secret admirer from work who wanted to go out with me. i told them that my wife had left last week and that i was not ready to give up on her yet. if it was a test i hope she heard what she needed to hear because it is the truth. so now i cant talk to her except for about the baby. and i just want to call her every night and say that i love her and i miss her. i dont want her to think that i am over here jumping up and down because she is gone. I am not perfect but my intentions were always good. after reading the first chapter of the divorce remmedy it makes me believe even more that there is hope but how if i cant talk to her or tell her about these things.
