Me2- I just wanted to share that I know where you are coming from. I am by no means completely over what I have been thru. What you have shared about your situation in many parallels mine: H's affair was a lot about himself. I am just choosing each day to look forward. I had a hard weekend helping H pack up his 'bachelor pad'. There was framed pictures of the vacation they went on together up on a shelf. Of course they went in the trash......but I love what Kent said about making efforts toward making each day special. Touch is also very important in communicating care- not just sex.
I am learning so much about living one day at a time and making the most of each day... Best wishes to you .....Jilly