Me2, ALTL, I definitely feel married. However, I have changed my perspective as to what that includes. I am trying to get rid of all the silly expectations and preconceived notions that I entered my marriage with. Bliss, no way. Work, plenty of it. Happiness, absolutely.
Last night I came home to a W that put her arms around me and said I love you and a 5 year old son who gave me his first hand made card. No special occasion, just an I love you. Kinda makes all the pain worth while.
It really does get better and time does heal wounds.
