oh, and thanks for the posts everyone. i read something else about women's "veto power" yesterday, ironically. in the chicago-based 'red-eye' main story - "is america too busy to have sex" which is actually very interesting. it talks a lot about "scheduling". oh, and by the way, my fiance responded very well to my letter. she seems to understand more and more how serious this issue is. now if only we could translate this into action... i don't want to give up yet!
