Sparkless What he does not realise is that every time I see a patched hole in the wall or a broken object it is a reminder of his anger.
I see your point and agree. His "menspeak" might be telling him, "gee, I fixed the hole, so what are you upset about?

I don't know what to advise about SSM or PM at this stage. My favorite was "The Divorce Remedy" I think that might do him some good.

I have Michelle's Keeping Love Alive® CD SPECIAL and there are other DVD videos. Some say for people that don't read much, the CD's and DVD's work better.

When I said I would switch with BB for a month to let her experience how I felt during sex I left out the other things like how much good sex also builds EC and trust in the R. I am more than just getting off and having hot sex, which has not happened in a long time.

Snowy Mountains Hydro Scheme
Yes, that is the project. Very interesting read about how it was built. I watch most of the "History Channel TV about dams, reservoirs, hydro power projects, canals, railroads, mines, major roads and bridges, etc, built thought the world.

Lou