StarvingDragon I read your other posts and your first post describing your SSM. I think your first post is better than the post on this thread. How about lightening up or explaining in detail, why you feel like you do.
I sort of agree with you I think women are very selfish when it comes to issues of intimacy,.....and if they are not in the mood, well too bad. This applies some times.
I left this out wanting it to be ALL ABOUT THEM, Sometimes that is true, and sometimes that is not true.
So how can we help you help yourself?
My first suggestion is to copy your introduction post to this forum and start your own thread. I see so many reasons for you to be here.
What books have you read so we can use common terms and talk about similar concepts.
Have you two been to counseling? When did the R change. What do you believe about your W's medical conditions? Do you think they really place her in a state where sex should be avoided? What about hand jobs or oral sex, what are your beliefs or opinions?
I agree with you on the porn and MBing (another forum). A person with a sex drive and not much of a chance to ML needs something.
Sorry your life is what it is, but welcome to the forum.
