I also thought your posts were right on the money too.
Funny, I was bored last night and came across an old thread from 2003 which CeMar posted to quite a lot. Nothing much has changed. He was practically saying that his wife lied to him about being HD and tricked him into marriage! Get a grip CeMar. Do you honestly think that your wife decided that she was going to turn off sex for you once the ring was on her finger? You have no idea what goes on with a woman's mind and body after childbirth. You aren't the same person you were before the child/ren came along. You never will be. The woman is a mother and the man is a father. That's how it will be for the rest of your lives. I really do understand how hurt you are, I can feel it when I read your posts but your perspective on M needs to change to accommodate this. Nothing else has worked so far. Stop sulking about what you used to have and start making changes to bring about what you could have. It might even turn your W on!
Sorry if I came across harsh, but reading those old posts put me in butt kicking mode!
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
