I think you summed up one of the perspectives of an LDW very well. I could easily relate to many things you said back in my LD days as well.
I hope it does give CeMar something to think about. Hopefully one of these days he will take responsibility for his role in the situation he now finds himself in within his M. Many people have encouraged him to look within himself, so far I have yet to see him do this....to recognize how he's contributed to his own problem. He still continually blames her for everything.