Do you still want sex? If so, at some point you have to intiate or bring it up. If she responds by citing "pressure" you can respond like so... " I just asked you if you want to have sex. Feel free to say yes or no but do not tell me that I am putting undue pressure on you. I want to have sex you can choose yes or no freely." No? Ok, then try again some other time. At some point the saying no out loud and whining about pressure will wear thin even for her.
As I am saying this I am thinking that I will likely need to do something similar. I am still collecting myself for the next bout in this battle.
