I agree. But as I see it, the message to her is she feels the pressure to now react in a manner she is not comfortable with.

Been there done that. Had the conversations and used valid points that you are stating. The bottom line is her response. She wants you to hear it not just listen to it.

I do not think you are a monster nor inconsiderate (not completely) but also I am not one that can throw a stone.

To her it is sexual pressure. To my Wife it is sexual pressure. To us, it is physical closeness.

Just that you need to hear her.

F4W

Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.

Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!