I’m game. It seems like she is sending a clear message. What do you think that message is? It sounds to me like she’s got her own agenda, her own life, her own happiness, her own responsibilities and obligations toward the kids, which just happens to have to include you. She still has sexual needs, so she just uses you like a piece of meat to get off, then goes back to her life.
Now why in the world do you think she treats you like that? And if you want to keep this dialogue going, don’t respond to me with ANYTHING having to do with her.