This was NOT about sex. The problem is that SHE automatically thinks that IT must lead to sex. What she is clearly telling me is that her breasts are off limits to me completely, EXCEPT during arrousal. This leads to stepping on eggshells, I must make sure to avoid those areas at ALL other times. No arrousing, no playfulness, no caressing, absoultely nothing. Everyone on here assumed it was to get sex, IT IS NOT. It's just freaking physical touch. If I want to pat her ass once in a blue moon, that should be no problem, but to her, she gives me dirty looks. Its a little hard to arrouse a women who has arrousal problems when you can't touch them!
