Cally:

There was never any intent for sex. It is the LD that assume this. What about spooning, cuddling, petting, caressing. Everyone is talking about this new book on touching without the orgasam. It is a little hard to do this when so much of the body is off limits and hidden.

She is a woman. Then why are HD women so VASTLY different then LD women. HD women understand that there is all kinds of sensual touching that will not lead to sex. My wife on the other hand is either in "Park" with the engine off, of running full steam towards orgasam, there is absolutely nothing in between. THIS IS NOT ABOUT SEX, this is about touching NON-SEXUALLY.