Why are certain areas of the body off-limits until you are in just the right mood?
For example, if I get into bed at night and reach over and caress the wife and start massaging her legs and back, and slowly work my way up the body, and let my hand graze her breasts, I darn near get my arm cuttoff, like I did something horrible. I don't understand this reaction. Why would a person NOT like to have their body touched. H#ll, if my wife just hopped into bed and grabbed my d#ck, I would think I had died and gone to heaven. So the attention I crave to have done to me she hates. This makes absoalutely no sense to me. And its not like I grab her parts all the time, it happens far less then once a week. Why does it take arrousal before I can touch the forbidden areas without risk of losing limbs?
Like I said, this reaction is the OPPOSITE of what I would do, so it is tough to understand.
