Just wanted to let you know the above is very well put-thank you so much!
Question for you: Besides doing things with your daughters, did you find any new interests for yourself? Did your H visit the children at your house, his house or both? Did you ever try to create some "mystery" about yourself, as is recommended with the LRT? Just curious. I find myself to be very available and accommodating, and I'm left feeling like a doormat.