Hi Jamie, old friend. Very glad to see that things are working out super well for you. I am still hobbling along with my h at this point.

I have a question for you. How did your h come to the conclusion that he was part of the problem? How did he figure out how to fix it? I'm sure you didn't tell him, or maybe you did, in a good solid Dbing sort of way.

Next, maybe you can remind us all again how you kept patience through the long dark tunnel, and didn't lose sight of your goals, which were to save your marriage and save yourself as well.

Did you at any time start feeling you had lost your love for h? Or that your resentment of the way he was treating you was welling up? And how did you handle that?

Thanks,
Alex