Nope. Couldn't do that. Sorry. My W has said OM wanted to meet me too. WTF? At least SHE knew that it was not possible without me being brought up on charges afterward.
That is one boundary I am NOT ready to cross anytime soon, and it's NOT because I think OM is some kind of evil POS, it's just because I have NO use for him in my life and he is a trigger that no matter how strong I become in the ways of the force...er...DBing, I don't think I could resist the feelings I would feel if I had to be around him.