Such great news. I, too, have been wondering how it's been going for you! You were one of those who helped me so much.
I can relate to everything you have written - and may I add - written so eloquently!
Although it is so very difficult to understand and even more difficult to reach that point, it is that point of not NEEDING, but WANTING the marriage and H, that point of knowing we will be ok no matter the outcome. AND continually employing DBing techniques.