All I can say is WOW! This is wonderful. How great to hear from you, Jamie. In particular, how incredible it is to hear the great news. You are so smart, so patient and your DBing efforts have really paid off. Not just for your marriage, but clearly, for you as a person. I'm so glad things are working out for you. You deserve it!!!!
And yes, it's hard to be perfect, isn't it? Making being solution-oriented a way of life is wonderful but it's also challenging. We all have to work at it all the time.
So thanks for the update and for bringing inspiration into the lives of everyone who visits here. Look for your post in Another Divorce Busted Forum! Keep up the great work. Fondly, Michele
