Quote: Why don't people answer my posts like they do others?
Am I doing something wrong, too much info. or too many questions?
The last person that took this "why won't you post to me" approach didn't fair too well mind you, but at least you didn't attack right out of the gate.
I don't know but I know for me, you are asking questions that I can't answer for you and thus I don't try. Also, I have NO idea from your post what your sitch is so it's hard for me to be specific. Most people here reply to posts that they identify with, that have issues that are similar to their own.
So, how about a little more background on your sitch and instead of asking questions that only you can answer, maybe ask "what would YOU do if..." or "how did YOU feel when your W did xxx..."
That all said, if I had it to do over again, I still don't know if I would want to know or not. I suspect, since I consider my knowing of the affair as the major catalyst in my becoming a better person, I guess I would say I would want to know but mind you, the pain almost did me in...
