Just had another thought; lately it's been suggested as a possibility in my situation.
What if she is having an affair, whether emotional or physical? What would I do with this information (if it's the case)? What if I get caught while performing my "detective work" (I can't afford a real PI)?
The latter, I imagine, would have an immediate negative result; snooping around, following, etc., if I'm spotted I'm finished.
How would, and could, I deal with the truth if an affair is occurring; would it be a "deal breaker"?
I don't think it would be a "deal breaker," but it sure would hurt like Hell?
Could I accept it and eventually learn to forgive, and live with it having happened, providing we learn how to repair and continue our M?
This is the clincher for me, I really am uncertain. Think about it, every time I'd be with her, the thoughts that would invade and disrupt... .
So, should I take the chance; or is ignorance really bliss?
(Keep in mind, oblivion is one thing, we can't fault the stupid, but as the word "ignorant" implies, that the truth is willingly being ignored, in some way. Also keep in mind the old adage: "The truth will set you free." Does anyone know what that really means?)
