Lonelyinbed If you don’t mind, I would love some details on how your H behaves today to kind of try and identify where he is coming from. How attractive would you say your H is? Also, has he aged well or have his physical strengths started to decline? Has he gained weight, lost hair, or anything else that might cause body issues? You said that he works on his car all the time. Is he a classic car kind of guy, a speed freak, or does he just do general maintenance on the family truckster? How do you feel about his auto enthusiasm? Is your H aggressive in other parts of his life or is he more passive? When he sees you naked without expecting to, does he look away or pay attention? If you look at him and smile, does he smile too? When we the last time that you went to dinner with just him? How did it go? When was the last time that you sat down with him and talked about his interests and his individual life?
By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates
