RE lonelyinbed If he happens to be off during the week, which is great, he will chase me around the house (kids are in school) but will have no desire to ML. Say's lets wait until tonight. But night comes and nothing happens. I just don't get it.
In my experiences this has happened to me. It was from eating too much for the evening meal, I started to think about doing the income taxes. I heard something bad about my line of work on the news. Only lasted for a few hours or days, then I was back to horn dog.
So, what is on your H's mind at night. The next time this happens, ask him what he was thinking the next morning after he says Say's lets wait until tonight.
NO buts or suggestions or we "could have's" if you want the truth.
We can give you suggestions but the answers are at home where you live. The answers are under many layers. Imagine you are peeling an onion that has many damages layers till you get to what is good.