Thanks for replying GEL. I have told him what I mean. At the time of our talking he fully gets it. Through our counsling we have learned to talk and answer. i.e. repeat what the other person is telling us. Make sure that we are on the same page sort of thing. But lately going quite has been his new thing. Not wanting to discuss it. I sure that there is no one else. I have asked and snooped. I know they say not to but I do.Said he would never do that again. Can't bare to see the pain I went thourgh. And can not understand why he let it happen. He doesn't seem to have the time on his hands to do so. His job keeps him pretty busy. He rarely has time to spent on the computer because the kids are always on it. He goes nowhere and in his spare time spends it on his car. I have tryed to get him to spend time with me instead, take a walk, sit, talk,or go out some where together. But he always manages to make sure none of that happens. He's to tired. But yet he can spend all his time under his car. I have asked him if anything is going on at work that may have him stressed and he says no. As for health issues, he did go to the Dr. to have a complete health exam, only because I made him. Thought maybe his testosterone was off and he came back with a clean bill of health. I don't know maybe it's just me, the kids, always seems to be something worng. I'm the one that takes care of everyone and everything in this house hold. Not one person has to lift a finger. My fault I choose to be the "Stay At Home Mom". Don't get me wrong I love my job. My kids mean the world to me. I'm able to stay home only because we have received a large inheritance from his father after his passing. My H asked me if I wanted to quit work or continue working. I choose to give it a try and this is just where I need to be. Teenagers are hard to raise. I love my H and would do anything for him. I look forward to his coming home. Even when I know little will be said. "How was your day" thats about it.
