Dave, Its good to see you!! And doing as well as you can be. I'm D now but I still use the board for venting and advice on how to handle lucy's craziness.. Dave, Do you think maybe you moved in too soon?? Obviously she did not like seeing you moving on, being stronger and seeing other women. It seems you have made all the commitment here so far. Things do have to progress slowly thats for sure but I also hate seing you go through the same anxiety's she put you through before. What kind of talks have you had? Why is she telling you that you need too much reaasurance? Seems to me that she was the one who did not want the marriage now does. Does she talk the talk and not walk the walk? Trust is a huge issue here and severing all your "single" ties puts you back in where you were before. Take it slow and also be cautious. Enjoy the time with your children (its wonderful isn't it?) and try to build that foundation with your W. Rondo
