Dave,
Wow its been a while and I was wondering how things turned out for you. I really am happy to hear you are back home. That is wonderful, however I can understand why you would have trust issues and all and still the fear of being hurt again. I know you said you tried therapy together in the past and it did not work but was it with a SBT therapist? You are both different people now and it seems you must learn how to put your life back together as such. I don't have any real advice as I am not a success (divorced on 1/11/01) but I pray that you can find what you need to put it back together and be happy. Keep us posted.

gm