This was great reading. I have been to different websites trying to read on issues like "cheating spouses" but some was upsetting to read and some wasn't what I am going through. I will not beg and plead, and I will take some of this advice, but I don't know if its to late? Like I said he has already confussed to me that he is in love with this OMW (other married woman) and that is where his heart is at. That statement just killed me! It also hurt that he slept downstairs last night, even thou he will not ML to me, its still nice to know he is lying next to me. Now do most men do this when they have OW? like they refuse to ML to their wives anymore? Our sex life was wonderful before all this happened. It was like one minute we were lovers and then all of a sudden out of the blue he wanted out of our marriage. He said he did not want to be here anymore, that he wanted something new in his life. That he hates his job, etc..I first thought well maybe he is going through a MLC? He is 45, and the funny thing about the OMW, she is 45 as well. But again, thank you for your advice and I will look into the book you mentioned.
