Hi I am new here and would really like some advise. See I have been married for 26 years and out of the blue my H wants out of the marriage. He has been fooling around with a married woman and says that he is Not in love with me anymore and that he loves this other woman and that is where his heart is at. He does not like his job (which is how he met her) he doesn't care about giving everything up that we built our world around. He says he wants to be with this other woman. I love my husband so very much and I can not bare to lose him. Its been a very stressful time. See we also lost our son almost 2 years ago in a car accident. We have had lots of stress in our lives! He said that I will always be in his heart and that he will always help me out. We have so much in our marriage I can't imagining throwing it all away, for what? another relationship, its not always greener on the other side and I know that there is nothing I can do to change his mind and that I have to stay strong through all of this. But its hard, I am still trying to get over the loss of my son and now I have to deal with the loss of my marriage which to me is very devastating! He has been seeing this OMW since Oct 05 and they really only see each other once a month when my H has to travel there. I know they do talk on the phone everyday. Can someone please give me some advise??
