Hi again MaryB. Have you seen my answer to your questions on the other thread? From your post to Dana it sounds like you have a pretty good understanding of what is happening here and that it can be destructive if not dealt with. It also sounds like we all might need a new thread of our own just dealing with how do we get over what we have been through.
Is anyone interested in a thread where we can share ideas on how we can get over the damage our spouses caused so we can move on?
