Dana, I'm sorry for your pain. Thank God your husband has repented and is treating you with understanding and love. You need to go through a healing process, and this does not happen overnight. Try to stay as positive as possible with him--ask him for support, for a hug when you're feeling low about it. (I wish my husband would be so repentant and understanding. He's home to stay, and dedciated to our family, but he can't seem to handle my pain--is impatient with it...). Try to channel your hurt and frustrations and pain here on this board and in counseling. That's great that you have your own counselor who can focus on helping you to heal. Ultimately, the two of you will need counsling for your relationship--and I'll bet he'll ultimately admit that he wasn't really in love with her after all. Also, please consider Retrouvaille--do a search for it here to read what people say about it. Take care, Dana. Oh--try prayer, too. And ask your husband to pray for your healing.
[This message has been edited by maryb (edited 01-09-2001).]
[This message has been edited by maryb (edited 01-09-2001).]
